Author: Andrew Preedy

TOP TIPS
FOR SUPPORTING A CHILD MOVING TO
SECONDARY SCHOOL

Put yourself in your child’s shoes. Try and remember what it was like for you before starting secondary school – the nerves, the fear and the sense of going from being a big fish in a small pond to a little fish in a big pond.
Being open and empathetic will allow your children to feel like they can tell you anything, meaning you can help support them to the best of your ability.
Look out for changes in emotions and behaviour. Are you noticing changes in your child’s sleeping pattern or are they being a bit more quiet than usual? Subtle changes in emotions and behaviour could be a sign of stress and anxiety.
It’s worth having a little chat with them and seeing if there is anything going on that they want to talk to you about. Try to be sensitive to those times of big change, but be careful not to be too over-bearing.
Do not be afraid to contact your child’s new school if you feel like you child needs extra support with their school work or at unstructured times of the school day (break time and lunch time).
Ensure you have a named contact at the school and their contact details, in order to make it easier when contacting the school about your child.

Questions? Contact us:
Catch22 Include Wales
Newport Primary
33 Godfrey Road
Newport
NP20 4PE
Phone: 01633262396
Email: andrew.preedy@include.org.uk

Year 6
Transition
Booklet
For
Parents/Carers

Show your confidence in your child so that they believe in their own confidence. Avoid taking over tasks that they can do themselves – it can sometimes be hard to hold back on trying to help.
Be ready to listen, but don’t expect your, “how has your day been?” end-of-day question to be answered. Just be there when your child wants to talk, so that if they have a tough day or a worry, they know you are available.
If your child feels they are being bullied or tells you of a circumstance that you consider to be bullying, contact the school for a confidential conversation to deal with this.
Welcome their new friends into your home and make them feel at ease.
Subtly increase your child’s independence with practical experiences such as popping out to the shops or getting them to take more responsibilities like getting their own school uniform ready.

The easy-wins and simple changes to make the transition to secondary school run smoothly.
Make sure you are signed up to the school portal which has all the information you need – how your child has been behaving, what homework they have and what exams they have coming up.
Practise the journey to school, particularly if it involves public transport or a new route to walk.
Buy your supplies of sticky back plastic early before they run out, so that you are ready for the book covering requested of most year 7s. Stock is harder to find in that first week of September!
Go through that school checklist together so that they have everything they need. Go stationery shopping together if necessary.
Name everything! Lost property is more likely to get back to your child if it is clearly named.
Photocopy or take a photo of their timetable in case it gets lost. They could also take a photo on their phone and save it as their background - that way they’ll never be without it!
Make sure they get to bed in good time without any electronic devices, and they have a water bottle and a healthy snack for topping up during their school day too – the first week will be very tiring.